I read an article today about it being okay for a woman to date multiple guys at one time. Choosing the right guy is almost like finding the car you like. When I say date I mean dinner, movies, sporting events, etc. It's crazy because nowadays if a woman talks to more than one man at a time she's considered a hoe. But that's beside the point, I totally agree with the article because as a woman we get emotionally attached. So why not date to figure out what's best for you. Dating one man at a time takes a lot of time, and if your putting your all into one person and they are not doing the same when it comes to you then guess who's feeling are hurt.. YOURS! You need to be able to keep your mind off of what's stressing you. I'm not going to lie I talk to multiple dudes and like I said its not about having sex because that's not the case but we hang out; have they tried me of course what man wouldn't? The reason for my doing is because I know I'll get attached and expect more if I like you and if your not ready for the next step then I'm left on the burner. We are strong individuals as women, but, we tend to wear our heart on our sleeve. I believe men date multiple woman because they are trying to figure out who best fits their life and then you have those who have no motive what so ever its just because they can. You have some men who don't even realize they are ready to commit until they find that woman that makes them feel they can spend the rest of their lives with her. Now this may not be for everyone but it can be a helping factor. Think about it !!
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Women don't you know you can accept or decline a men at any point??? Don't ever feel you have to settle! Because men don't settle! they get want they want when they want it..Treat a men like quick sand, if he starts to sink then he will strive to get back to the top. Make him work hard for you.
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