To do for yourself or NOT

Blogging from my cell... Ok so you know what I hate the most, it would be when someone tells you they are going to do something and then they make an excuse not too. Now I know someone will read this and think I'm talking about them and that may be correct but you are not the only one. Here are some things women get tired of; of course, you have the liars, cheaters, deceivers, yeah yeah we know about all those types of men and the funny thing is men think the same way about some of the women out here. But of course I beg to differ because I know how me and my friends are and we love to cater especially if the man is doing all that he is suppose to. So what is the problem .. Hmm ok I here a lot of men and women both saying well I've been hurt so many times I don't give in. Well guess what honey we all have hell I'm living proof but I don't think I always come at the dude wrong and not open up. I let you dig your own hole and then I eliminate you. Go figure right?! But anyway let's get back to the point where people say they will do something to help you out and then turn around and don't. I hate those people what if I really was looking forward to this being done. Like really my day or even plans must change. You inconvenienced me. But what I've learned is that you can't depend on every one and you have to have your stuff on point and just do it yourself because if you waited on a man/woman to do what they say they will do it's like waiting on men to have babies ( maybe that wasnt a good analogy) but you see what I mean it's rare it happens. People are always out here trying to just look out for themselves and if it doesn't benefit them they want no parts of it and it's sad. We have to do better and stop being selfish.