People have been asking me when I was going to write my next entry. Well here you go..
My question for today, What is considered a groupie, or who is defined as being a groupie? Many people have a different perspective on what a groupie may be. Not to long ago a friend of mine told me to get on Bossip.com to look at an article about Swiss Beats apparently cheating on Alicia Keys with a young lady from Houston. Go figure, my city! Now after reading this article I proceeded to look at other articles and I ran upon an article about NFL players and their different perspective on what a groupie is an how you can pick them out. The players interviewed told their stories about previous encounters. Of course their names and teams they played for were kept anonymous. A couple of the guys mentioned that a groupie is the girl in the club who may make eye contact with them and continually stare until the guy comes over and politely speaks. She may also be the girl who only goes after a certain guy depending their occupation.
One story told was a guy who was out at a club with some of his teammates and their server came over n brought their drinks. He also said that she appeared to be looking to try and figure out who this individual was paying for the tab. Later that evening he said she must've searched his name because he said she slipped him her number an said ,"if you want to see me outside of work give me a call." Wow talk about being aggressive ! Although all of these men had their own views of what groupie is one of the guys made a comment saying,"I don't believe there are groupies women are just looking for an opportunity to better their situation or someone who best fits them because of being who we are ( NFL Players) we look for a certain type of woman as well , we wouldn't dare look at a woman working at McDonalds half the time? Now reading this I was like okay I can kind of see where all of these men are coming from because you do have these females who are just looking for these guys for all the wrong reasons. And that's where the stereotype of groupies come in. As a woman I can say yes we look for a man that has stability that can provide for his family and also take care of business on and off the field or court, and yes as a woman we need to also be able to have and hold our own, stand behind our man, cook, clean, and whatever else he needs us to do. We both a job in this! If your man is paying all the bills then yes I believe he should come home to a house that's cleaned and food that's prepared for him. Now back to this groupie tip, a groupie to me is a chick looking for the easy way out. She's the chick that's only in it to try and trap the dude, but in actuality she looks stupid because at the end of the day "if" you have a child then guess who's stuck raising it, because he has to work so he may never be there. Now you can't do the things you need to do or go the places you would like to because you have a child to raise. Is it really worth all that, especially if he's not going to be with you? If you ask me I'm not popping out any kids until I'm married and I know we gone be together because it's genuine and plus I like being told I have a nice body I'm not trying mess that up right now. But seriously guys it's those types that mess up and give females that stereotype not all women are like that just like not all men are dogs! Everyone deserves a chance and your smart enough to know what the persons intentions are. Oh and I will say this just because women are dating in a certain circle doesn't mean anything in this world once you have entered a certain circle whether its entertainment, sports, or whatever you tend to meet people, gain friends etc., so if you date a certain type of person from what you use to date then oh well I mean people meet all kinds of people every single day. It means nothing and people really need to just get a life of their own if you ask me, because a lot of you have way more serious issues than to be worried about the next person and what they are doing!!!!
