The Spoken Word

Words are much stronger in person when said.
Often not taking serioulsy when read .
But, what you must understand is that even though their not spoken, what I'm writing is much more stronger then what can be spoken.
WHYY???
Because when I write I get in this zone, and when you call my name no one may be home.
This zone that I enter is deeper than what anyone can see.
So when I write it's basically my speech.
My intermost thoughts, that I would love to express, but at times words this deep may cease to be spoken, but will run across this page in rage.
You think i'm JOking!!!
So when I write I want you to read take in and interpret this whole thing.
Some people express better when spoken, I express better when Writing.
You think i'm Joking!!!!

Idea.....

So I've been thinking what if I started to get other's people stories on my blog and let them tell their stories. Now, of course, I wouldn't add the names of the particular parities unless I had their approval to do so; because my blog is based on real life events I think it would be great to get other's stories on here as well. Well tell me what you think!!!! Email me at qp2k6@aol.com  and in the Subject box add "BLOG" with all of your comments about whether or not you would love to provide your stories. That way I won't delete it by mistake.  If I'm able to get your stories this will also be able to help me with my next project that I hope to start on soon! I hope you guys decide to share your stories with me I think this would be really interesting. Also please share the blog with friends so I am able to get more traffic through here.. Let's make this happen!!!! This is not only for ladies men can also share their stories with me as well I want to hear what the men go through too. 

I Miss This show !!! ( The Game)

Life experiences

Please note that my blogs are about life experiences,so I just tell the stories as they happen. So whether it happens to me or to someone else I will  talk about it.. I feel there is no need to discuss other people's issues and not my own. No, normally I would not have went to that extinct but that was something that REALLY needed to be put out there when people's lives could possibly be in danger!!!! So I got a comment saying that a guy that ever read this blog would probably think I would blast our business. No that's not the case... Unless you going in like this clown (i might LOL) but, my relationships are my relationships and what I do in my relationships is my business and no one else's! I see this no different than writing a book about an issue period. Also if there was a guy that really knew me he would know I would never do it because of who I am. I can say, I would talk about it but it would be in generalization form, but like I said when people's lives are possibly in danger this becomes a SERIOUS issue to me!  Always remember when you loose someone's trust everything else you say doesn't even matter...

Thanks to all you that read and commented on the post and also had their many retweets!!! Oh and I can't forget the facebook inboxes!!!

Groupies

People have been asking me when I was going to write my next entry. Well here you go..
My question for today, What is considered a groupie, or who is defined as being a groupie? Many people have a different perspective on what a groupie may be. Not to long ago a friend of mine told me to get on Bossip.com to look at an article about Swiss Beats apparently cheating on Alicia Keys with a young lady from Houston. Go figure, my city! Now after reading this article I proceeded to look at other articles and I ran upon an article about NFL players and their different perspective on what a groupie is an how you can pick them out. The players interviewed told their stories  about previous encounters. Of course their names and teams they played for were kept anonymous. A couple of the guys mentioned that a groupie is the girl in the club who may make eye contact with them and continually stare until the guy comes over and politely speaks. She may also be the girl who only goes after a certain guy depending their occupation. 
 One story told was a guy who was out at a club with some of his teammates and their server came over n brought their drinks. He also said that she appeared to be looking to try and figure out who this individual was paying for the tab. Later that evening he said she must've searched his name because he said she slipped him her number an said ,"if you want to see me outside of work give me a call." Wow talk about being aggressive ! Although all of these men had their own views of what groupie is one of the guys made a comment saying,"I don't believe there are groupies women are just looking for an opportunity to better their situation or someone who best fits them  because of being who we are ( NFL Players) we look for a certain type of woman as well , we wouldn't dare look at a woman working at McDonalds half the time? Now reading this I was like okay I can kind of see where all of these men are coming from because you do have these females who are just looking for these guys for all the wrong reasons. And that's where the stereotype of groupies come in. As a woman I can say yes we look for a man that has stability that can provide for his family and also take care of business on and off the field or court, and yes as a woman we need to also be able to have and hold our own, stand behind our man, cook, clean, and whatever else he needs us to do. We both a job in this! If your man is paying all the bills then yes I believe he should come home to a house that's cleaned and  food that's prepared for  him. Now back to this groupie tip, a groupie to me is a chick looking for the easy way out. She's the chick that's only in it to try and trap the dude, but in actuality she looks stupid because at the end of the day "if" you have a child then guess who's stuck raising it, because he has to work so he may never be there. Now you can't do the things you need to do or go the places you would like to because you have a child to raise. Is it really worth all that, especially if he's not going to be with you? If you ask me I'm not popping out any  kids until I'm married and I know we gone be together because it's genuine and plus I like being told I have a  nice body I'm not trying  mess that up right now.  But seriously guys it's those types that mess up and give females that stereotype not all women are like that just like not all men are dogs! Everyone deserves a chance and your smart enough to know what the persons intentions are. Oh and I will say this just because women are dating  in a certain circle doesn't mean anything in this world once you have entered a certain circle whether its entertainment, sports, or whatever you tend to meet people, gain friends etc., so if you date a certain type of person from what you use to date  then oh well I mean people meet all kinds of people every single day. It means nothing and people really need to just get a life of their own if you ask me,       because a lot of you have way more serious issues than to be worried about the next person and what they are doing!!!!

AHHHHHHH!!!!!

 This weekend out at the lake with friends I saw something happen that I've always heard happened , but I had never seen  happen with my own eyes.  I was completely in awe. We all know men tend to have more than one chick they are dealing with and sooner or later they will choose that one they want to be with, the one that lights a spark under them, and that one will become the one they may truly love. Well anyway I don't think this guy could careless about any of these chicks. Let me just get to the story.

 Well I was invited to the lake this weekend to hang with a friend and his friends we planned on all having a good time, which we did, we stayed on the boat for four days, rode the jet ski's, had a barbeque. I mean overall it was a great weekend I had a blast! Now this is what really took the cake for me I'll try not to be as explicit. Here we go... 

  Day One.... Like I mentioned earlier I was invited to the lake to hang out with my friend on his boat and some of his friends (two guys who were bringing their lady friends) so with the two guys it was three girls between them. Anyway to speed up day one one of the friends (I'll just call him friend "B") I believe it was  his birthday he talked  to one of the chicks so this particular girl had her cousin and homegirl with her. Everything was cool and we were partying and drinking while on the boat. Me and my friend were driving the boat, and the chick that new friend B her and her cousin went under the boat and left the homegirl and the other homeboy up top with us drinking and partying. The stuff that happened after that I was totally in awe because this type of stuff had never happened to me before. Basically the two chicks did their thing to each other and then did him (threesome). It got to the point to where when i decided to go to sleep and my friend make them leave from downstairs. For some reason I had to go up stairs and they were all in the open doing the "business". The friend of the girl ask to be dropped off at the dock to go home because she was in awe like me and she had to get to her kid because her mother was watching him/her. The cousin and the chick to friend "B" stays. Now I'm thinking what type of woman would be all in the open in front of people just doing stuff like that. It's one thing to be behind closed doors or in the comfort of your own home but to be on a boat with random people ... Come on son that was crazy, I mean it just wasn't registering correctly what was going on.  So anyway I go to sleep they are still on the boat doing whatever upstairs.

Day Two: I wake up and the girls are gone so friend "B" tells us that the chick he was seeing had fallen asleep and the cousin came on to him and they she started to go dome crazy (ladies watch your friends and family around dudes u deal with) but anyway the cousin is going dome crazy while the chick is sleep. WHAT!!!? WAIT A MINUTE!! I'm like this is crazy!! So then he says his lil chick wakes up and realizes what is going on and was like her alarm is going off she needs to get home to the babysitter to get her kid, she gets off the boat at a different dock and proceeds to walk almost two miles to where her car was (chicken head should've been home instead of being nasty). So her and the cousin left early that morning. Later that day another chick shows up for Friend B once again, we all riding jet ski's  and finally we drop off friend B new chick to the boat because she doesn't wanna ride anymore. So she's on the boat with my friend and his cousin while I'm riding jet ski's and friend B is too as well. So once we get back to the boat friend B and his new chick goes down to the bottom and they do they little thing. Once again we kick them out to go to sleep and as I shower I proceed to put my swimsuit on top of the boat to dry , Friend B and the new chick are going at it outside on the boat... WTF is wrong with these girls like I really don't understand. So my friends cousin leaves but as he left he said that Friend B's chick gave him her number while we were on jet ski's but we didn't believe him. So anyway this chick stays the night and leaves in the morning to go home. 

Day Three: As we wake up we get a call from the cousin like he's going to pick up friend B's chick (I'm like WTH these girls have NO respect for themselves) bia you just left the boat. So after this dude just finished knocking you off you go with my friends cousin .. Like Really??!! So my friend's homeboys leave to get stuff they need and then come back.. Finally peace and quiet so we take the boat to get drained, to get gas, and fill the boat with water so we can shower and stuff and then I get on the jet ski's once again. Now Friend B has yet another female with him now this time he was like "This is my wifey" (i guess he was telling me so I wouldn't slip up and say nothing). If I tell you this fool acted like he was just a damn saint I couldn't believe it and "wifey" had no idea of the stuff that was going on the last two days!! She was all happy and smiling and I'm just thinking girl only if you knew what I had seen.  Man, I have never seen that happen in front of my eyes like that. Some people are just too open and out there and to be honest the reason men come at women like myself side ways is because of the chicks that let them get away with murder and think the shit is cute. I'm like really, what are you getting after all of that? I was really like WTH just happened, I mean if you could have been there I kid you not it's just some stuff you don't do in  certain places. No matter how comfortable you are with yourself.. That was just too much for me honestly and I'm looking at him like dude you are NASTY!!! There's is no way chicks like that should get married!! Your leaving your kids at your mothers so you can go out and be nasty an oh yeah you are 40 like really get your life together. You will never be married, especially if you can be passed around that easy. Pick and choose the things you do and hey maybe that's what you want to do but don't get mad if you get called a "hoe" because thats how your acting. Keep your stuff private. Your all free with it out her just everywhere when you should know better. Now for this Friend B I know your homeboys may think your the man because you  banged damn near six chicks in three days but really that is disgusting keep your stuff in your pants!!! This was like a revolving door this weekend one out and hear comes another one!!

 

Interracial Dating

 

      Does it bother you to see a black or white individual dating the opposite race? I know I always hear people saying they hate when they see a white woman with a black man, I mean really, who cares, get over it you are allowed to like who you like. People make me sick sometimes. So here's my story and I'll keep it short and sweet.
     Last night while hanging with my girl at a bar, a white guy approached me and we were talking and having a great time, harmless fun. I see these black guys looking at me, so I ignored them and continued talking to the gentleman I was talking to before. As soon as I noticed, the african american guy walks up and stops, looks at me cutting off the guy I was talking to and makes a comment. Like really though? You rude B****H! I just don't understand and then he gives me this funky look. So I ignored him and kept  doing what it was I was doing. Some people are just ignorant and it's so sad. That man did nothing to you for you to be rude let alone disrespectful.
    Why do people make it a big deal about who someone dates? I don't care if your orange as long as you make me laugh, keep me happy, and do what you are suppose to then I'm good and no complaints. I've seen women hate on brothers for dating the opposite race and brothers doing the same thing. I had a friend matter of fact two, they were white guys tell me that they liked me but one couldn't be with a black girl until his grandparents died because they were racist; and the other guy was like his mom likes black people but doesn't want his son marrying a black woman. WOW crazy right, but this is the world we live in. I'm so glad my mother doesn't mind who I date. But these were grown men in  high 20's lower 30's. I mean in my opinion I wouldn't let anyone sabotage something I have with someone that I like. I had to share that experience with you because I had never had anyone physically walk up to me to make a comment it's always said by passing.